My husband, The Accountant, has been with his company for three years now. In that time, I have had the pleasure of meeting some really great people, other accountants, in fact. I have met brand new baby accountants who have only been at their job for about a year and I have met controllers (the papa bears of the accounting department) who have 20+ years of experience and I've met some people in between too. Most of them share all of the same qualities and have a lot in common. No, it isn't just the fact that they needed six calculators to make it through college or that they can cruise through Microsoft Excel like a Cadillac down a quiet, country road. Its a mentality. Its a frugal, money-saving mentality. There is a lot that can be learned from this.

In fact, at the annual Christmas party last year, another accountant's wife and I joked about how cheap our husbands are. I told her that my husband watches TLC's Extreme Cheapskates to get new ideas on how to save money. Then, he will often turn to me and say, "Honey, that's a really great idea!" She also shared humorous penny-pinching stories about her husband and seemed to understand that when money was spent in their home, it was done very very carefully.

Therefore, in order to be frugal with money like most accountants are, we need to think like an accountant. Here is how my husband, The Accountant, uses his knowledge and experience for our own personal finances.

1) Everything Needs to be Budgeted
Up until a few years ago, we never had a budget for anything. It just makes life so chaotic when you do not account for where your money is going or have a certain dollar amount in mind with your spending. If I give $5 to The Boy Scouts outside of the grocery store, I write it down. I write down every penny that we spend. You would really be surprised how "small" expenses add up quickly. Also, The Accountant and I have weekly budget meeting every Saturday morning over our breakfast while our children sleep. We talk about all the money we spent this week and how we're doing at hitting our budgeted estimates. We also talk about future expenses that we are going to need to address soon.

2) Everything Has a Cost
When we're planning on doing anything, from a vacation to taking our family to the movies, we consider the total cost of everything. Yes, I mean everything. This total cost includes food, gas, taxes, admission prices to the event, etc. Then, we think about how we can cut down on those costs. Sometimes, we eat dinner just before we go anywhere. Sometimes, we combine errands. Sometimes, we shop closer to home. Sometimes, when we're really trying to save money, we have to say no.

3) The Return on Investment or The ROIs
This means that when we spend money on an item, we want to get our money out of it. We want to get as much, if not more, money back than what we initially spent on the purchase. For example, we bought The Accountant, a pair of really nice hair clippers for $40 so that he could start cutting his own hair. A cheap haircut at Best Cuts costs about $13. Therefore, The Accountant, only needs to use the hair clippers about three times for this investment to "pay for itself." He has cut his own hair every 8 weeks for the past two years so we have most definitely seen a great ROI from this investment. 

4) Financial Forecasting
This can best be seen within our budget in regards to our car insurance. It is cheaper if you pay for your car insurance every six months rather than paying for it on a month-by-month basis. At the same time, we budget for our car insurance each month so that we have enough money to pay for it when the bill comes. Just like a weather forecast, we are looking ahead to see what we need to pay for and planning for that, just as you would bring an umbrella when rain is expected. This is to avoid any shortcomings on our cash flow.

 
It was the end of Fall 2006 when I met my husband, the accountant. At the time, he wasn't an accountant but a handsome and motivated young business student. I was studying Communication at a nearby university. He was quiet and a little reserved. I was outgoing and had a people-oriented personality. He was a saver and I was a spender.

After a brief three months of dating, we were insanely in love and already talking about getting married. Even then, we still talked about our dreams and our finances. We were so young too, just 18 and 19 years old but just like anyone else, we wanted to get married, have kids, and live in the house with the picket fence.

In college, I was so terrible with money. I got my first credit card and I swiped that thing wherever I went. I even over-drafted my account a few times. I had this mentality of urgency and if I saw something I liked, I should just use my credit card and make it mine. I had a hard time telling myself, "no."

The accountant, on the other hand, was so careful with money. He paid for his own education and took on 18 credit hours (on average) each semester while working about 20 hours at a part time job at a restaurant. He really worked hard and I knew my money issues bothered him. I remember him looking me in the eyes and saying, "Do you want to marry me?" "Of course I do!," I replied enthusiastically. The accountant told me that we needed to spend as little as we could and save as much as possible. I loved him and I wanted him to be my husband someday so that's just what I did. In the late summer of 2009, we got married with just $1,300 in the bank. 

No, that was not a fat bank account for a newly married couple. I wept tears of joy and relief when my husband was hired full time as an accountant. I was pregnant at the time and we both decided that it would be best if I stayed home with the baby. By now, my spending habits had drastically improved. However, I still had some room for growth. After all, we now had to learn how to live off of one salary with a little one on the way.

Tomorrow, I will share with you how we did this. I will also reveal the money saving mentalities that I learned from my husband, the accountant, and all of his accountant friends. Stay tuned!



 
Halloween came and went for our family already. We celebrated early with our kids because the 31st is just a little too close to the first of the month when my hubby has to "close the books." Our kids had fun trick-or-treating & we had fun taking them. I save money on costumes and fall decor by shopping AFTER Halloween. The day after, all the stores reduce their prices. Each day that passes, the prices will fall because the stores want to get rid of everything! I bought our children's costumes two days after Halloween LAST YEAR and spent $5 for one and $2.50 for the other. I just bought the next size up. I refuse to spend $30 on a Cinderella costume. It's just too much. Even the days following Halloween, my kids still had two to three costumes to choose from.

Another great option is to find friends or family with some older children. When they are finished with their costumes, ask if you may borrow for next year and return later. No child wants to wear a costume twice anyhow.

For some cheap family fun, we took our family to a Harvest Party at our church. Many churches put these on and there are so many great activities to do there. The only cost for us was food and we spent $5 for all of us to eat a very filling meal.

Have a Happy and safe Halloween. Remember to watch your babes closely and carefully check all candy!